i have been thinking about this lately. recently i have seen lots of my friends getting in and out of relationships. i have seen people getting together with people who they have met just a week ago. and some have refused to say yes, "not knowing the other person well" being their reason for the refusal.
here's what i think. i think that people should know the other person well enough BEFORE they let themselves into a relationship. maybe as they say it, they could "date" some people for a while and then choose one of 'em. like what Meredith did in Grey's Anatomy. this obviously doesn't apply for those buggers who lives JUST to sleep around. *major eye roll*
and yeah, what exactly IS there in a name? as far as i know, having the name of being in a relationship [outside a legal marriage] doesn't make it legal in our religion. or its not even enough for some people to get serious and commit themselves to another person.
so, is a name for the relationship [excluding marriages] important at all in the present world?
here's what i think. i think that people should know the other person well enough BEFORE they let themselves into a relationship. maybe as they say it, they could "date" some people for a while and then choose one of 'em. like what Meredith did in Grey's Anatomy. this obviously doesn't apply for those buggers who lives JUST to sleep around. *major eye roll*
and yeah, what exactly IS there in a name? as far as i know, having the name of being in a relationship [outside a legal marriage] doesn't make it legal in our religion. or its not even enough for some people to get serious and commit themselves to another person.
so, is a name for the relationship [excluding marriages] important at all in the present world?
4 backtalk[s]:
yea, i believe it is. but i guess the problem arises when the wrong meaning is taken or when its being misused. for example like u jes said. getting together with the first person u meet thinking she;s hot and THEN trying to see what type of person she is, all the while having the physical relationship through it. plus the name doesnt mean what it used to before dho? i mean nowadays we have like atleast 5-6 relationships(physical ones) befor we actually get married. so even the parents are smiling when u intro ur bf/gf to them but thinking "i wonder how long this one is going to last". heheh. got lots more to say but shudnt make my comment longer than the post right? ;)
i don't think a name is important
but people ask, they are a pain in the arse but the ask anyway
so we have to give an explanation to who this guy is who hangs around with us
its not important because its what you feel and how important the relationship is to you
i hope im getting the right message from this, the post is kinda confusing
the name is damn important. It's what defines anything and of course without a definition - there is no meaning. Something without a meaning is non-sense and should be avoided.
@kaiza yeah, that's what i mean. the names doesn't matter much to people anymore. and yeah, i wouldn't mind even if the comments are longer than my post, u knw? =P
@.mini sorry for making it a bit confusing. i think you got it right there. *smile*
@shafee i agree with you, but there's a whole lot of people who doesn't. for them, it's just a game i guess. *shrug*
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